The Manager's Errant Kick Demonstrates That When Fortune Fades, It's Truly Gone.
Although the probability of fans at the home ground being hit by wayward kicks from the Blades players are more frequent, first-hand stories of their head coach being shown a red card for kicking a ball into a bystander's face turned out to be a misrepresentation. Upon watching the footage of the incident, it became evident that the gaffer had merely succumbed to a basic urge to strike a football rolling toward him at halftime.
The Event
As he walked off the field at halftime, a ball was tossed in the path of reserve players preparing and ended up directly in Wilder's path. Without a second thought, the 58-year-old acted on what many would consider a common response for any sports fan and struck the ball. Sadly, his casual left-footed connection was misjudged, sending it flying into the seating area, where it hit a fan in the face, dislodging his hat.
Immediately, the manager waved a sorry and climbed the steps to check that the gentleman was unharmed. Upon coming back to the field, referee Adam Herczeg issued him a red card, which he took without argument. While some quarters portrayed it as an act of aggression by a manager under stress, the truth appeared to be a simple mishap—a case of terrible luck for someone who reacted on impulse.
The Aftermath
Despite the fan being fine, seeing the humorous side, and now having a memorable anecdote to tell, it was probably right that the coach was sent off. Forced to sit out the remainder of his side's eventual loss, he now could receive up to three more games on the sidelines simply for mis-hitting a football.
Sheffield United has in the past racked up substantial penalties for what the FA termed an “incredibly poor” period of conduct across multiple matches previously. In the current campaign, they have experienced several key decisions go against them, such as the post-playoff move to dismiss Wilder and hire Rubén Sellés before reversing that decision.
After the game, Wilder's assistant, Alan Knill, handled media duties and blamed the officials for the team's failure to secure a draw. He argued that all present in the stadium witnessed the events in question, but the officials failed to, leading to a disappointing outcome. Yet, he undermined his own point by referencing a rightly awarded spot-kick for Southampton and a ruled-out goal by Sydie Peck that could have secured a draw for the Blades.
Wrap-Up
In the end, as both Wilder and the supporter in the stand now know all too well, when fortune turns against you, it's really out. Whether a poorly struck ball or a controversial refereeing decision, some things simply won't go your way, regardless of how unlucky or unintentional they may be.